Unlucky?

Every woman knows the state of despair and resentment, when something does not work out, and the more you state “bad luck again”, the more often this fact tends to be repeated. By the way, programming for failure takes place, even if you don’t want it, and emotional remarks like the one described above, oddly enough, tend to come true. So how to get out of the vicious circle, or is it easier to give up on everything and only regret that you are unlucky with work, do not stick in your personal life: men do not pay attention , do not rush into finances ... In any case, you should not give up, but here's what to do, maybe our tips on this topic will help you.

How to get rid of failure

First, you need to learn to stop clinging to small mistakes and snags as something fatal: any minus can always be turned into a plus. For example, you broke your leg (God forbid, of course), but you can still find something positive in this situation: the spine is intact - it’s already good, there is time to rethink everything, perhaps this is a sign to leave the society or place where you injured, is also real.

Second, if you have a series of unpleasant events, then it's time to look at everything from the outside. How did you get into this cycle? No need to complain that God is punishing you for something. You are always given clues that you have taken the wrong path in the form of such negative events. If you don’t notice in time and don’t start to change something in your life, it can get worse. So always reflect on your experience.

Third, remember that there are no victories without defeats, and everything that does not kill you makes you stronger. Very often, the transition to a more serious level is accompanied by some kind of turning points and often painful ones.

Fourth, the loser syndrome can be fixed for a person in life if, in childhood, parents or teachers paid attention to the child's bad luck in business and in all his actions in principle. It’s more difficult here, here you need to purposefully remove yourself from this imaginary ring of failures. Up to the constant training of a positive attitude, by imposing a positive program on the subconscious.

It is also true that “unlucky” and “lucky” are two sides of the same coin, with the only difference being that it is easier for a person to admit and believe that he is a loser in life than to take into account that he is a minion fate. This is how human nature is arranged, that we are more willing to believe in the bad. But in fact, what you sincerely accept for yourself will happen to you today, tomorrow and every day. Therefore, it is more profitable to assert that everything is for the better than to live in the expectation of the worst. The rule is simple: mentally say that in all matters you are lucky , and the result will not be long in coming.

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