Such a common mistake of self-perception - as a denial of appearance, occurs mainly in girls at a young age. After watching films, they begin to think that all life is built around the outer shell, but for some reason they lose sight of the multidimensionality of everything that exists. No one ever appreciates individual details, the impression is always a general one. In other words, if you have plump lips (as is now fashionable) but the wind is in your head, what's the use of this erotic mouth. It would never occur to anyone to admire the beautiful shape of eyebrows if their owner is boorish.

How to see your beauty

Let's outline together a few important points that will help you feel more harmonious, love your individuality.

It makes no sense to persuade a woman to love her reflection if she knows that she is not very beautiful. But there is always a rational grain in looking at everything differently. From the other side.

First stage

What must be noted for oneself is that nature does not create identical copies. And your uniqueness is in your facial features, body proportions. They are all individual. It makes no sense to want to change everything radically, for example, through plastic surgery. It won't make you happy. It is better to think about how you can emphasize your strengths. And they certainly are, if you look.

Next stage

Change your approach to self-perception. The impression remains not only from your face and body, but also from your charisma, from charm. For example, a beautiful blonde comes to a meeting of classmates and begins to behave as if she is the coolest here, everyone owes her their attention, makes a sour face, looks around in disgust ... Former classmates don’t even want to stand next to her. Therefore, keep in mind that it is very important what impression remains from communicating with you. Beauty is beauty, and being in the company of a comfortable person is much more pleasant.

Adviсe

Next, you should pay attention to your accuracy. Untidy beauty is no longer beauty at all. Clean skin, neat hair, fresh manicure always play on your attractiveness. Agree that the location of other people is ensured when a person has a neat appearance. Pay attention to bank employees. There are not so many true beauties among them, but they are all, as if by choice, with make-up, with styling, always in white blouses - it’s nice to look expensive.

Strive for perfection in your appearance and you will always make a favorable impression. Find what in your face can be emphasized favorably: eyebrows, eyes, lips. Focus on what you want to highlight and distract from the shortcomings. To do this, use the secrets of makeup .

Beauty is a terrible force

Not beauty, many consider non-compliance with standards. But, if you remember, many stars are far from any standards there and have turned their features into chips. Why don't you think about it too. At the very least, this approach is better than being constantly depressed about your non-standard appearance. Fighting shortcomings is a road to nowhere, a more advantageous option is to promote your virtues, make them your calling card. Dissimilarity and originality are always appreciated. The banal does not remain in memory (including men), this is also worth keeping in mind.

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