The news of pregnancy and for the woman herself is always a kind of surprise, therefore, no matter how much you prepare mentally, there will still be a slight shock. Well, especially for men. The reaction will depend on his temperament, and on his status as well.

How to tell a man about pregnancy

If you are currently not scheduled, you need to present the news that your lover will become a dad as carefully as possible. Some men think that in this way their other half wants to legitimize the relationship (roughly speaking, drag him to the registry office), and in no case should you be “blackmailed” by the fact that if he refuses, you will leave, provoke a miscarriage and other. In this way, you will only spoil the relationship.

It’s better to let him digest (by the way, it’s more rational to do this after dinner so that he doesn’t get too nervous), let him, as they say, “sleep” with this thought. He will gradually come to terms with the fact that soon responsibility will be added to his shoulders, and in the end, he will prepare for the birth of an heir.

Such news puts some men into a stupor, well, of course, because the first thought is usually this: well, that's it, the end of a free life. They can be silent, seem depressed, and generally act as if it doesn't concern them: the first defensive reaction. However, as with any other changes, a person gets used to, and then takes root in what needs to be taken for granted.

Therefore, for such an important message, choose a moment when he is emotionally calm and ready to hear you. But, after you notify, do not bother too much, do not torment him, what he thinks about this. Everything will gradually settle down.

Lover

If a man is your lover, you should not blackmail him with the fact that everything will reach his wife: you risk making an enemy in his face. The decision to become a mother is yours, so let him know how you feel about it so that he does not get nervous about it. If you are thinking of giving birth to a child for yourself, then, as they say, it is useless to demand participation and support from him if he himself does not decide on this.

In a word, you start somehow, and then you will orient yourself according to the situation. Just keep in mind that the psyche of a man is vulnerable in this regard, so forgive him for the first inadequate reaction. Although, who knows, it happens that a man immediately falls into euphoria from happiness that has suddenly fallen on his head. However, it is impossible to accurately predict the response in each specific case.

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