Well, once again fell for the bait of his charms? Well, it happens. Although, if you are unhappy with this, or if they often want you to continue spending time together, which is contrary to your plans, you should still think about how to ignore such hints and how to refuse a man in general.
How to refuse a man
- First of all, remember the rule, if the lady does not want, then in fact he will not succeed. If you are definitely against sexual relations right now, then the desire to refuse will still help you avoid intimacy by any means. In the end, if you are not alone with a rapist, then a normal man will not be interested in continuing against your will.
- Valuable advice - do not give a reason. Sometimes, the usual coquetry with everyone in a row leads, nevertheless, to the fact that some men may regard such behavior as an invitation to continue. So be careful when you realize that your flirting has a double meaning in the context of a relationship.
- Do not go for beautiful words. Many womanizers, realizing that a woman loves with her ears, manage to talk her so much that she herself does not understand how it happened that she ended up in bed with him. Learn to refuse in principle. Because when a woman knows how to refuse at least someone and for any reason, then sex will not be a difficult exception. Just say that you do not want an intimate relationship, if a man is adequate, he will understand your mood.
How to refuse a man
- If you met just today, then a quick road to bed for both him and you will be an indicator that both wanted only easy sex and nothing more. When you have plans for a serious relationship, the man will also not rush things, because it is much more important to get to know each other emotionally, and only then enter into a close relationship.
- When you say no, say it with your appearance. Agree that sitting in a miniskirt at the bar, sexually smoking a lady's cigarette, you will make a promise with all your appearance that you are here to attract male attention, so the refusal in this case will look like an invitation to the game, that is sort of a veiled "yes".
- Avoid ambiguity or you risk being misunderstood. Well, to succumb to a primitive provocation that modern women no longer “break down” when they are called to bed is simply stupid. Although, if you were counting on this, then what is there to argue about. When agreeing to his proposal to go to a cafe in the evening, it is naive to assume that after a romantic dinner there will be no proposal to continue a wonderful evening, so always keep in mind that in this case you will have to find the strength in yourself and say after dinner (if there is a hint), that intimacy is not included in your plans. Although, if he is set for a serious relationship, then he himself will not insist on checking feelings.
In general, you need to be able to refuse, and not only in cases where it concerns intimate relationships. Oddly enough, but those women who know how to say “no”, thereby strengthening their position in life, are more respected by those around them (including men). Nice to deal with a lady who knows what she wants. This speaks of her confidence in herself, in her outlook on life. So deny yourself pleasure, and you will be happy in your personal life.
