How to get revenge on your husband for cheating?

Revenge is a dish that is served cold... But, you know, even cold, even hot, but the feeling of some sediment when pronouncing this word remains. So is it worth it to take an action from which it obviously carries a negative. Let's talk about how to avenge her husband's infidelity , whether it should be done.

What do you want to prove with revenge

And most importantly, to whom. Often, in a fit of emotion, a woman wants to punish the traitor with the same coin: that is, to cheat on him. Will this make it easier? Think, with just one action, you run the risk of getting confused yourself, and cross out everything that could still be adjusted.

No one will insure you that the person with whom you are going to take revenge on your husband may become very sympathetic to you, or may spread all sorts of fiction about your relationship to your work colleagues. And if he falls in love with you or starts looking for meetings that you didn’t plan at all. In general, it would be worth once again to think where your ambitions will lead.

Ways to get revenge for treason

Moral teachings are, of course, interesting, but you still want to take revenge. Maybe without even resorting to treason . How then?

One option is to make your husband jealous . While he is cheating on you, he does not even think about the fact that you are capable of something. For him, his own betrayal - like sports interest, friendly sex, light entertainment - whatever you want. But when he begins to notice that his wife is spinning shura-mura with someone, he instantly sobers up, he has an interest in finding out what is happening. So walking "to the left" slows down.

At this moment, do not go too far, as soon as you saw that your husband began to be interested in what you have there, take control of the situation into your own hands. That is, start attracting even more attention to yourself. Change interests, or do what you have long wanted to do, but, as they say, your hands did not reach. Finally decide to go to the gym, go to the cinema with your friends, sign up for a series of procedures with a beautician. Let the spouse puzzle over those for whom you are trying.

Another option is to stop helping him in what he previously counted on you. Maybe you jointly solved some work problems, perhaps paid bills for him. Well, they definitely washed his shirts. Well, deprive the opportunity to "get high" further. Let him feel what it is like to do without your help and support.

The third way is divorce . The measure is extreme and it can never be recommended until all attempts are made to reach out to his soul and understand where and at what stage you together made some mistakes that led to his betrayal. Believe me, it is better to patiently weigh than to very hastily decide on a divorce and put an end to the relationship.

There are many cases (you can read the forums) when women are very sorry that they went on about their emotions and made a break. Before slashing, consider if there are ways to save the relationship without resorting to various methods of revenge.