A few years ago, marrying a foreigner was equated with something out of the ordinary, and more of a positive sign. Years have passed, "American fight" is still the dream of many Russian women, but more real than before. Because now there are a lot of marriage agencies, dating clubs on the Internet, which allow you to meet your destiny in the far side. But about the plus or minus of such a relationship, you can arrange whole discussions.

Many of our ladies see a big plus in the fact that in another country they will be more protected in terms of property relations, that is, in the event of a divorce, they will receive a good half and will be able to continue to live at a decent level, even if the marriage was in our style - “ civil » . In addition, many are still attracted by the level of civilization abroad: the shops are better, the houses are more solid, and the streets are clean. Not life, but a fairy tale.

But, as often in the pursuit of a pink dream, the reality turns out to be much worse. Worse not in material terms, rather, problems arise in interpersonal relationships. For some reason, some women think that if they couldn’t find a decent man here, then they’ll definitely find it “there”. However, it cannot be said that marriage with a foreigner is a utopia, there are many examples when girls successfully found a husband for themselves, and still live happily. But there are other examples as well.

Mentality plays a role in building relationships. Of course, foreigners in our girls are attracted by many things: both appearance (especially the Slavic type with blond hair and blue or green eyes), and soul: submissive, sympathetic, kind. But the way of thinking can be so different that even in elementary things there can be discrepancies and even incompatibilities.

We will not mention here that when going abroad, women may not find the best lot for themselves. Because in the homeland there are many examples of how wives suffer from beatings of their husbands, are left without children (it is not uncommon for husbands to take their offspring from a previously legal wife). But in native land, at least, there are relatives and friends to whom you can turn for help. And who to contact in a foreign country?

And one moment.

If a woman attracts men of a certain type: womanizers, gigolos, drunkards, misers .. the list goes on, then where is the guarantee that a foreign husband will be different? Certain types of people are attracted to each other. Everything has its own patterns.

Therefore, measure seven times, marry once.