Only in our country could such a definition as “civil marriage”, just like “old new year”, appear. It smells like a holiday, but it is not officially considered.

Advantages of civil marriage

What is the beauty of living like this? It is often possible to hear from representatives of both sides in the mentioned union that the stamp does not fundamentally change anything. Well, if it is not so terrible, on the other hand, then why not put it? Although they call the procedure a formality, but somewhere in the soul they are still afraid of it (especially men). Why? Yes, because this formal stamp imposes a serious responsibility.

• Firstly, if you like it or not, but if you are the head of the family, find strength in yourself and provide for the family.
• Secondly, if you suddenly do not take root with your other half, you will have to share everything that is acquired by “overwork” or feasible, but in any case joint.
• Thirdly, perhaps the most delicate in this situation is the possibility of having children. If a child is born in a marriage, the parents bear the same responsibility, even if they decide to run away, all the same, the father is obliged to help, at least in the form of alimony. (And this point, by the way, does not suit many men, because in this case you will have to do your best to hide the sources of your income).

dreams

As for women, many of them, of course, dream of a family. Maybe at the first stage, being students, the girls agree to live with a guy, get to know each other better, check the relationship. But, getting older, they still want stability in life, their home, children in the end. But, it happens that the “test” option ends in nothing if it is not translated into the mainstream of legal relations in time. The principle is that the more time passes from the moment of cohabitation, the less chance of creating a full-fledged family. Often, having missed the moment, women can no longer find their man and remain lonely .

It is no secret that the candy-bouquet period tends to end quickly, and then, if people are not united by common interests, relations come to a standstill. And joint interests appear precisely in a real family. They are any acquisitions, plans, even repairs have their role, not to mention the time when children are born.

What happens when two people live in a civil marriage?

Each of them understands that at any moment they can pack up and leave. More, of course, this moment flatters a man, because if only a common-law wife makes a scandal about “where was he, with whom did he spend time?”, The conversation can be very short: he got up, got ready, left. Or announced that she is now free and can leave the territory of residence.

In the case when such relationships become obsolete, everyone remains with what he had before coexistence. That is, a woman (in most cases) can be left with nothing at all. The only way to somehow insure in this situation is to register the property acquired jointly by shares. a marriage contract in the event of a divorce , in which all property rights will be spelled out.

In general, if you have lived in a civil marriage with a man for 3 years, and he still avoids talking about formalizing the relationship, this is probably not the best option for you. Because the more you continue to live in this status, the more often you will have thoughts and doubts about the future prospects. Of course, there are turning points in marriage, but more often spouses experience them, because before they lose everything that has been built over the years, they still think more than once. In the case of a civil marriage, there’s nothing to think about: you’re tired - you can leave, why torture yourself if it doesn’t make sense in the context of such a relationship.

So, agreeing to civil relations, once again it is worth considering why you are agreeing to this now, whether there is a prospect for relations, whether it is worth wasting time on superficial connections. There is always meaning if everyone benefits from it.