Someone, reading the headline, will immediately say: “Yes, I will never become a housewife! It’s better to work than to sit at home and be dumb.” Another woman will think differently: “Oh, if there was such an opportunity, of course, I would sit at home, take care of the child and the household ...” These are different views and this is normal, because all people and situations are different.

Anyone who likes to describe cases when men leave their wives, who have become completely boring due to sitting at home, you can object at least to the fact that there are just as many examples confirming that men leave working women .

Housewife

Rather, another factor influences the acceptance or rejection of a home lifestyle: whether the situation suits both spouses. After all, there are husbands who prefer their missus to stay at home, cook cabbage soup and take care of children. If only she did not have the opportunity to communicate with other men. When a woman is immersed in the household, there are fewer reasons for her husband's jealousy . But another question arises: is it convenient for the spouse to be in such a situation? Become aware of yourself as a cook, dishwasher, laundress, and anyone else, but not your beloved wife ...

There is always a choice: the taste and color, as they say. We repeat: it is important that in this situation everyone feels comfortable, and that this state of affairs does not contribute to the degradation of the personality of one of the spouses (more about the wife).

Minuses

After all, many women after the birth of a child tend to go to work, because they feel isolated from the world, and the routine “sticks”, I want to unwind, get new impressions. In addition, being at home, a woman becomes obsessed, which causes a feeling of dissatisfaction, depression. There is no development, no internal self-realization, and accordingly self-esteem goes down, which the husband cannot fail to notice. Perhaps with a wife who has a limited range of interests, he will become bored. That's the reason for the betrayal . Therefore, first of all, a change of scenery, new impressions are for the benefit of the woman herself. In addition, she will again begin to pay more attention to her appearance, which means that she will like herself and her husband, respectively, too.

pros

On the other hand, a woman who is constantly at home has a lot of personal time. You can finally do your favorite things: surf the Internet, sign up for a procedure at a salon at any time, knit or sew out of schedule .. In general, each will find its advantages and disadvantages. Therefore, it makes no sense to state only one possible option in such a situation. Decisions, as well as people with their types of character and outlook on life, are a great many. Choose the one that is closer to you and do not listen to the opinions of others: you will not live someone else's life.