Have you ever wondered why men are attracted to other women (not even mistresses)? Well, what man will restrain himself from looking in the direction of a spectacular, well-groomed, pleasantly smelling lady. Wives are offended when they notice such a picture. But everything is natural. A beautiful object attracts attention more than the usual image of his own wife, who, perhaps, has already forgotten how it is, in fact, to look good. Maybe she doesn't like herself anymore.

Therefore, men, having a mistress, first of all compensate for what they are deprived of in family life. And everyone has their own points in this regard. Someone is tired of hearing scandals and reproaches every day, someone is ready to run away to a “good” and “sweet” woman from his plump and unkempt thief for at least an hour. In other words, what your husband lacks, he is looking for on the side. Think, that other woman, perhaps, is not at all more beautiful than you, and even, on the contrary, loses. Perhaps she is even older and has children, but he found something in his relationship with her that you could not give him.

No need to reproach yourself with the fact that you are already good, and you are trying your best to live up to the ideal. You see, striving for perfection is also sometimes annoying. When, as they say, there is nothing to cling to: everything around is perfect - it is also uninteresting.

Good lover or good wife?

What then to do, how to understand that a man is not satisfied, and in general, why do you have to think and strain to keep him near you, maybe he needs to strain ... But it just so happened that the keeper of the family hearth is a woman, therefore, she needs to use her brains about the comfort in the house, the comfortable psychological atmosphere and the attractive image of you - a woman. Why don't you become your husband's mistress and wife at the same time?

If you make a man want to enter the house, if he is comfortable there, and if you attract the eyes of other men, then you will need such a woman yourself. Here, of course, we mean when you are already connected by family ties. If the mistress appeared at the stage when you did not have time to formalize the relationship, you should think about maintaining the relationship. Perhaps they have simply outlived themselves in the form in which they once began.

Think, analyze, and the truth will surely be revealed to you. Without labor, as you know, you can’t pull out a fish, and even to maintain relationships in the family is a lot of work. And if you manage to do this, then you rightfully deserve great family happiness.

However, do not overdo it in self-digging. Looping on questions: “how is a lover better than a wife?”, “why betrayal happen in your family?” can lead far into the wilds. While the obvious things will go unnoticed by you. It is enough just to be observant to replace what situations your husband reacts to, including negatively. In the end, if today you are concerned about the issue raised in this article, then you are trying to change something, and not stupidly rolling out claims, as they say, in reverse order.

Remember, a mistress is not better, she just gives what your husband lacks so far, or maybe he is used to seeing everyday reality. Perhaps the moment has come to change everything, and it is in your hands.