A question many women ask themselves. Because the purpose of any woman is to give birth to children, to keep the family hearth. However, in pursuit of personal growth, for building a career, some people forget that there is an optimal age for having a baby. Life goes on, professional successes are replaced by periods of stagnation or even failure, but there are still no children, and there is no time to even think about it. And then what? Lonely old age or all the same work for the benefit of society and your financial well-being.

It is no coincidence that they say that in youth everything is done much easier. Because a person is not yet burdened with colossal knowledge and experience and is not engaged in miscalculations a few steps ahead. But the older, the more arguments appear, and not in a positive way. It always seems that first you need to complete one thing (study, for example), and then have children. But as soon as one “pretext” is overcome, a new object of worship immediately appears on the horizon: either you need to gain experience, or you need to pay off the loan.

And when to give birth? There is no time left. In addition, over the years, a woman begins to appreciate that children entail a certain burden of responsibility. Well, what about without it. But, mind you, those who gave birth to children in their student years, or at the stage of acquiring professional skills, also did not escape responsibility, but everything somehow happened by itself. And the children have grown. Yes, it wasn't without problems. Without them, life does not exist at all, but everything has settled down. In addition, working as an employee, there is always the possibility of losing a job. What can we say about your business, when the lady, if she is the leader, keeps the whole company on her shoulders. But even for such a case, there are enough examples when women gave birth in parallel and continued to manage the company or delegated their powers.

Pay attention to a child or work

It's also not an easy question. Because many immediately after birth are in a hurry to get into line. The financial situation does not allow someone to stay at home for a long time, someone “goes crazy” out of boredom. And yet, one must understand that for a child the most important period of formation is up to three years. It is during this period that the baby receives up to 80% of all information about the world around him, at this time the foundation for the intellectual development of your child is also laid. Do not forget about the character, its formation (the first shoots) appear exactly before the age of three, while at the age of five it is already considered that the main character traits are laid down. And they will depend on the right upbringing .

In addition, some life values, emotional experiences transmitted to a child from adults at this age will influence his entire future life. Therefore, it is so important that they be transmitted from a loving person. If you cannot be with the child yourself, then let it be a grandmother. Early separation from the mother (visiting a kindergarten already at the age of one, or staying with a nanny) is not the best option. Think about how this will affect the future fate of your child. Entrust the child to those in whom you are confident. Now it is also not uncommon when a father plays a big role in raising a child . Sometimes, the wife and husband change places: she earns, and he sits with the children.

In any case, the decision is yours. Therefore, think and weigh all the pros and cons. In the end, you are a mother, and you know better what will be best for your child.