Why do girls like bad guys?

What image of the "bad guy" does your imagination draw? A woman with life experience is more likely to describe him as a bully, a bully who is used to promoting his opinion against all odds. To many, he is seen as bold, assertive, frantic, freedom-loving. There is a lot of contradiction in his image. Why do girls love bad guys, but want to start a family with good ones? And this one is just a little female secret .

Bad boys bribe with their courage, while any girl wants to feel behind a “stone wall”. She likes to be a winner girl, she feels protected. She is flattered that her friend is the soul of the company, and that friends value his opinion, and ill-wishers are secretly afraid of his pressure. The bad guys have a charm of unpredictability, you can never guess what he's going to come up with this time. Such guys seem to be originals, their aspirations and goals have an incomprehensible scope, which is how they win the hearts of girls. They always have a plan, they take the initiative in their own hands, both in entertainment and in relationships. And, of course, they do not skimp on compliments, from which any lady will be in seventh heaven.

In a word, bad guys attract with their leadership qualities, clearly expressed masculinity, because a man in the view of many girls is the embodiment of courage, courage, determination. And these qualities are rarely combined with caution. In some cases, the listed virtues are superimposed on negative character traits , which as a result can lead to another extreme: all of himself, the brave "bad guy" begins to think that there are always two opinions: his and the wrong one. His girlfriend must be completely subordinate to his principles, in general, despotism goes beyond all limits. Is it good to live with such an upstart in marriage? It's one thing to show off at the stage of a romantic relationship, and quite another thing when it comes to family .

Good guys , in contrast to those mentioned above, are not particularly proactive, rather ready to agree with the girl’s proposal regarding spending time together and generally rarely contradict her, as if relying completely on her opinion. They never ask for trouble, they will not arrange a showdown if someone allowed himself to drop a careless word. Unoriginal in choosing a gift for a birthday and March 8th. And in general they are all so correct.

But more complaisant in terms of creating a family . They will never point a woman to her place, they almost always participate in the joint conduct of everyday life. And, what can be most valuable when entering into a marriage, they are ready to sacrifice relationships with their friends (and therefore part of their freedom) in favor of strengthening the family union. But “female happiness,” as in a song, “would be cute next to me, but nothing else is needed.”