Women definitely need to learn how to compliment men, it will always come in handy for new acquaintances and for continuing relationships. But if everything was so simple, we would not devote an entire article to this topic. The fact is that most of the fair sex simply do not know how to make compliments unobtrusively and at the same time to the point.

A real compliment should not be too straightforward and simple. For example, saying something like “Oh, how handsome you are” or “I love tall men like you so much” is wrong. So you create an awkward situation, confuse a man and seem like a rustic provincial yourself.

How to compliment a man

To win over a man, you need to delicately pay attention to one of his virtues or to something unusual in his image. For example, you are riding in an elevator in an office building with a young man who is still unfamiliar, and he clearly impresses you, but you don’t know how and what to talk to him about. Maybe he has a jacket of an unusual color or you noticed a ring with an interesting stone. So ask: “Excuse me, you have an unusual ring, but what kind of stone?” or “You have such a flat mobile phone, is this a new model?” At worst, you can subtly remark: “How nice it is to ride in an elevator with a handsome man, this doesn’t happen every day in our house.”

If the man is inclined to continue the conversation and answers you, perhaps it is worth trying to find out something about him. For example: “Do you often come here? You know, there is a very cozy cafe on the ground floor, I usually have lunch there, if you want, we can have lunch together sometime.” As you can see, acquaintance with a man .

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When making a compliment, focus on what really attracts attention, in other words, a pleasant remark should not be out of nowhere, as they say, sucked out of your finger. As a rule, a man knows about the dignity that you want to emphasize, and will definitely respond positively.

Summing up, regarding compliments to the strong half of humanity, we recall once again that they must be done unobtrusively, without rude hints of your intention to get to know each other. Otherwise, you will not only find yourself in an uncomfortable position, but also beat off any desire to continue the conversation with you.

You should also not arrange reconnaissance in combat for a practical purpose. For example, like this: “You have such a nice perfume, I would love to buy it for my husband.” The compliment phrase should be structured in such a way that the man has no other options than to say something back to you. So, before you say it, think about whether it would be appropriate in this context, and how you would look when doing so. You probably don't want to seem funny.