Choose your man for the night and for life, you see, things are different. And when a young girl, changing guys like gloves, thinks that she knows all women's secrets and can always choose something (or someone) suitable for herself, then she can be deeply mistaken. Because the "carriage and a small cart" for boring communication will quickly dissolve when it comes to marriage, or at least a hint of a serious relationship.

There is no secret that men choose some women for entertainment, but no others for creating a family. That's right, which of them wants to marry one who easily spends time with different guys, will she be a faithful wife and a caring mother? Doubtful. Although, sooner or later, satiety sets in with a riotous lifestyle. And then the woman is ready to follow her destiny on this earth, that is, to give birth to children, to be the guardian of the family hearth. Only now it may turn out that there is no one with anyone, but how violently it all began ..

So how can you pay attention in time that it is at this moment that your man is next to you, suitable for your interests, according to your views, so as not to miss your happiness.

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You should pay attention to your attitude towards this person, how to analyze what attracts you to him. By the way, it is important to be able to distinguish passion from deep personal sympathy. If we are talking about passion, then most often this option ends in nothing: any acute periods in life pass. Passion as one of such periods. When people are fed up with sexual relations (a really constant very strong sexual craving for one object is impossible), a period of cooling begins, and if at this moment both understand that, apart from sex, nothing connected them, then the relationship ends there.

Another thing is if you feel that this person suits you (this is called "being on the same wavelength"). In his presence, you do not need to play a certain role in order to please. You are yourself. It is very important.

Often girls choose their other half in the image and likeness of their father. If the father in the family is the breadwinner, the real head, but is absolutely not immersed in household chores (which the wife is completely involved in), then there is a high probability that your chosen one will be endowed with the same qualities. If a girl rarely communicated with her father (due to circumstances) or he did not live in their family at all, then she can inherit her attitude towards men from her mother. An offended woman (mother) involuntarily programs her daughter that all the men around are "goats", etc. Accordingly, when it comes time to choose a husband, this internal program works, as a result, the choice falls on a completely unworthy person, life with whom impossible, or there are difficulties with the choice due to internal doubts and contradictions.

The same can be said about men. Since childhood, the main woman in their life is their mother. Therefore, they unconsciously measure this image to their future chosen one. That is why it is sometimes incomprehensible how he chose such a prominent and enviable groom for himself a “gray mouse”, and the whole point is only that, for example, her voice timbre is similar or the same as that of her mother. Here is the internal program.

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Play a role in choosing a partner in life and other significant factors. If you imagine your husband as very businesslike, in a formal suit, with a tie, it is clear that you should not look for this at a disco or other entertainment establishments. You should think about visiting reputable places, maybe among the partner firms of your company (where you work) there are such. Perhaps you should go there on a business trip, or at least take the initiative to work with such a company into your own hands. Perhaps there is something your future betrothed and works. Just don't have office romances in your office. But also do not forget that your status should not be lower than his. The rich do not choose Cinderellas (as they say, money is drawn to money).

No one has canceled such important qualities for a woman as accuracy, femininity, a sense of humor (by the way, it is very important). Who would want to live with a slut who, moreover, constantly grumbles and is dissatisfied with everything. So pay attention to your demeanor, how you dress. Maybe the advice of a stylist will be just right for you.

A man should not be complex about the fact that he will need to appear with you in the circle of his friends. Of course, it's nice when a decent woman is nearby, with whom there is something to talk about, and in general it is interesting to communicate. Therefore, it does not hurt to think about what kind of interlocutor you are. By the way, with a wife whom the husband trusts, he can share problems at work, and is not even afraid to be sick and need help (and this also happens even with a banal flu). In general, the future wife should create such conditions so that the husband can relax at home. If he hunted all day, got bread for the family, then someday he needs to relax. Therefore, it is important that he knows that the house is a reliable rear.

So think about whether you are ready to create an alliance in which each other is support and support, and then choose a husband. After all, as they say, the beast runs to the catcher, you just need to know the places and “run fast”.