Is there a life together after an office romance? Most often, no. As a rule, personal relationships at work also end in not very pleasant consequences. Why is an office romance doomed?
Love affair at work
Those who adhere to the position: only business and nothing personal always win, because when sensual emotions interfere with work, work goes by the wayside, as a result, the working rhythm is destroyed, and then the relationship itself.
The most common scenarios are 2: either it is mutual sympathy with all the consequences, or an office romance is a profitable move to get a position or hold your positions, or to find out secret information, in a word, for selfish purposes.
1 scenario option
In the first case, people are brought together by an emerging feeling (maybe not love, but at least sexual attraction). And what happens: every day people meet at work, of course, at first they are looking forward to the start of a new working day in order to see the object of sympathy again. Further more. Relationships are not limited to working hours, respectively, and after six in the evening, the two "doves" are together again. Up to a certain point, it is gaining momentum, and then there is a decline.
People simply begin to annoy each other (well, it is impossible to be together all 24 hours a day). In the event that one (or both) are married, sooner or later they get tired of each other, because they are connected not only by feelings, but also by work responsibilities. The latter, by the way, do not always cause positive associations, more often - on the contrary. Plus, gossip from colleagues (even if the novel is stubbornly hidden), you can’t hide an awl in a bag for a long time.
Although cases of serious relationships are not ruled out, then someone alone (to save the union) will have to quit, otherwise the ending is predictable. Office romances can be taken seriously by single women who have no other options for dating for the reason that colleagues are the only circle of people where they are.
In classical cases, the situation develops something like this: periodically scenes of jealousy arise between lovers, and then in increasing order. From this begins the slow disintegration of relations, and then their transition to the opposite phase (up to the point that people cannot tolerate each other). And if information is also revealed to the spouses, there will be even more complications. At the same time, the work process also suffers: work becomes not a joy, but a burden. As a result, someone will have to quit because of the unbearability of being in such a position.
2 scenario option
According to another scenario, the romance unfolds between workers in different statuses. Novel: head-secretary - common. But it also has no grounds for a positive continuation. The secretary benefits from such a relationship in the form of an increase in salary and maybe small favors (sometimes big ones), but it doesn’t matter. The boss enjoys her charms up to a certain point. Sooner or later, dismissal is inevitable. Irregular hour, will find a new passion. In general, marriage in such cases does not smell, except for a short-term benefit.
However, for women, such novels end much more painfully. They have time to become emotionally attached to their lover and experience breakups more acutely. Men, on the other hand, are initially (in the vast majority) in these situations tuned in to temporary connections, in which they see a certain interest and perceive the gap as a logical conclusion.
