What to hide, almost every woman has complexes that have arisen for various reasons. Someone is embarrassed by physical disabilities, someone cannot overcome psychological fears and barriers in themselves. To expose women's complexes, you need to "look into his face", that is, to understand where he came from and why he takes over you. Let's analyze the most common ones.

Women's complexes

Where did you get the idea that your fullness is the reason for your personal (or other) failures. Very often, women themselves cheat that they are supposedly fat and shapeless. And, what is most interesting, they make others believe in it, imposing this idea on them.

There are many examples when plump women successfully marry and arrange their personal lives. What's the secret? It's simple: they accepted themselves as they really are. Yes, nature endowed someone with a slender figure, but did not give them chic hair. Bet on your merit. Find in yourself that attractive thing that is given to you by nature.

Remember where your complex comes from. If you were teased as a fat woman as a child, live it again, forgive the children who hurt you mentally. Now you are already in adulthood, but here the rules are slightly different. People around you treat you the way you present yourself. So work on this. Proud posture, good humor and constant knowledge of your virtues will do the trick.

But this does not mean that now you can eat without looking back. Every time you go on a diet, remember what you want to lose weight : to please yourself first and then others.

I'm ugly, men don't pay attention to me

As you know, there are no ugly women, there are lazy ones. Have you ever thought that people want to communicate primarily with those who are a pleasant conversationalist. In addition, there are a lot of examples when beautiful and slender people cannot arrange their lives. Everything is much deeper than the problem of appearance.

Yes, they are greeted by clothes, but they see off something known how. So, for starters, take your image. Nature has given each his own. Remember celebrities who do not shine with their appearance, but this did not stop them from becoming famous actors. Moreover, their clumsy appearance has become a calling card. This is from the category that when you cannot correct your shortcomings, turn them into virtues.

The most famous technique: when you approach the mirror in the morning, smile and tell yourself that you are so beautiful. What is often repeated becomes an axiom for you and for those around you. Yes, it's not easy, but where did you hear that someone out there easily managed to get everything in this life. If something is given, then you must pass the strength test.

I have crooked legs

Well, it's actually a classic. "Crooked legs" - the definition for each is different. Often women exaggerate, comparing their own with someone else's "good and slender." What makes you think that your legs are "not up to standard." Did someone tell you about this? And the second point: there are, of course, obviously curved legs, but do you have any other advantages besides this? Or do you want to become a ballerina? Working as a manager and wearing jeans, it is quite possible to be happy and lucky.

I have small breasts

Who said that breasts have to be big. If Anna Semenovich's breasts are often shown on the TV screen, this does not mean that there is one ideal for all men and women. Everyone's tastes are different. And lifestyle too. If you are athletic, thin, then your small chest harmoniously fits into your image. And it’s not a fact that your man is sleeping and sees big breasts. If he appreciates only body parts in you, then probably such a partner is not for life, but rather for entertainment and comfort. win a man with a medium-sized chest.

All people have flaws, and if you start comparing yourself with others, you can earn stress and neurosis. You are good the way you are, nature does not create the same. And only a person can inspire himself with standards, and then he torments himself and adjusts himself to these ideals. In the end, it's up to you to decide whether to feel left out and miserable, or to enjoy life. Remember that some people don't have that either.