Where do you usually go on a first date? Most often, in a cafe where you can relax, and eat any awkwardness with dessert or drink a cocktail.

When going to a meeting with a young man, think about what you would like:

learn more about him, so to speak, go on reconnaissance;

to impress with his nature, in other words, to trump so that he has no chance to retreat;

just have a good time, chat, maybe gossip, without any special claims and hints of a future relationship.

Based on the goal, you need to choose the means. However, in most cases, the first date is an attempt to get closer, often also a hope for continuation. Therefore, your task is to make a favorable impression without scaring off or dumbfounding the gentleman with your manners of dressing, talking, laughing, gesticulating, etc.

Give your young man the right to choose a place of rest, let him suggest where you go to sit. A too obvious initiative on your part to go to a specific place may prompt him to think about your desire to completely control the situation, dictate your terms, starting with trifles and, in the end, spend your leisure time where you want, but at someone else's expense.

When choosing a topic for conversation, avoid direct questions about his past regarding his ex-girlfriend or wife. Do not ask directly where he works and how much he earns - this is tactless and characterizes you as a potential kept woman.

How to prepare for a date

Any guy and man is pleased to see a feminine companion next to him, so choose something elegant from your wardrobe, not very catchy, but emphasizing your feminine charms. Do not wear too revealing outfits: a stunning cleavage, a super miniskirt, too tight clothes are a bad option for trying to start a serious relationship.

It is good if you first find out something about your companion. Then you can ask him to tell you more about his hobbies, hobbies. Men love to be listened to attentively and are keenly interested in the details of the most significant activities for them.

Think also about what you can say about yourself. A wonderful interlocutor who listens all the time is good, but you also need to somehow interest yourself. Tell a couple of funny stories you've been in that will help lighten the mood. And in general, a sense of humor is a great trump card.

You should not tell something from your life that will cause pity. Each person wants and likes to be close to those people with whom it is easy and pleasant to communicate. A smiling young lady will win a hundred points ahead of a girl loaded with problems who is looking for someone who would take pity on her, the poor one, and take a nap.

Don't forget about the manners that enhance your feminine attractiveness: from time to time show off your wrists, casually straightening your hair. Keep your legs crossed, especially if you are wearing nylon tights - this always emphasizes femininity. These gestures can even switch or distract your partner from the topic of conversation that you are already fed up with, so use it.

Resist the temptation to reveal everything about yourself.
Separate fragments from your life that you want to voice should only spur his interest in your person. From communication with you, he should have a desire to learn more, and at least once again spend time in company with you. It is important to understand that the impossibility of making a specific conclusion after the first date, but the definitely pleasant “aftertaste” from communication, will serve as an incentive to initiate a new rendezvous on his part. By what signs to determine the love of a man
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