And do nothing. If you already got one, then you yourself chose it (subconsciously). Certain types of people are attracted to each other. A woman, of course, can be indignant and resist the fact that she got a sissy. But she gave her consent to his marriage proposal herself or even married him to herself on her own initiative, which means that at the subconscious level she needed a man who rarely makes decisions himself (relies on a woman).

causes

Of great importance is the internal setting so that the husband does not contradict, always agrees with your opinion, rarely opposes it. But when you have received such a life partner, you begin to be annoyed by his softness, the fear of taking responsibility. Here the way out is this: either you already come to terms with this state of affairs, or leave. to re-educate a husband , because it will not lead to anything good. Yes, and you yourself are clear that the model of behavior is laid down in childhood.

 3 main types of sissy

First

The first includes the classic representatives of this “detachment of mom-dependents.” Without a mother, they cannot even take a step, although they have been married for a long time and seem to have to build their own lives. Often such a binding arises due to the fact that the boy was raised by his mother and grandmother, and he is used to the existence of only one authoritative opinion (mother and grandmother). As they say, the son grew up a long time ago, but the habit of consulting remained. So he rushes with every little thing to his mother for a blessing, despite the fact that the wife has her own vision of the situation. Often such sissies do not even get married and are ready to listen to their mother's "tales" for life. Reason: emotional failure, lack of inner core.

Second

The second type is eternally "snotty" husbands , who see their wife and mother in combination. They are constantly waiting for their spouse to cook the same delicious meatballs and borscht for them, wake them up in the morning and even watch their mother's favorite TV shows on TV. In general, for them, the wife is the second mother. And what: mom is here, mom is there - it’s convenient.

Third

The third type includes sort of rebellious natureswho have been trying all their lives to break away from their mother's "wing" and prove that they do not depend on her. Any action they take is an attempt to declare their independence, that they are against the invasion of maternal attention into their lives. At the same time, the mother of such a son just sees the meaning of her life in raising a child according to her “ideal” concepts (in fact, by her own interference in any of his business).

It should be noted that the negative emotions associated with such maternal obsession are projected in a young person onto his family life. More precisely, such natures rarely start a family , thinking that the wife will be a second mother. But all forces are thrown at self-realization in the chosen profession.