How to communicate with men?

Sometimes it can be difficult to understand how to find an approach to a man, how to communicate with a representative of the stronger half, so that he hears you and that you make an impression on him , preferably favorable. And then, after all, how it happens, you seem to pretend to be a kind of business-like educated lady, but he seems to not care, just impenetrable. So is there a secret key to communicating with men .

1. Communicate but don't be smart

A man by nature is a conqueror, therefore he strives for superiority in everything. However, as soon as the lady starts smart conversations, and at the same time he feels that he does not understand the topic or sees that she is more knowledgeable on this issue, the conversation goes nowhere. He just pretends not to hear or even see you: he will never agree to admit that he himself is not strong in this area. It is better to pretend not to participate in the conversation, to ignore the topic that has been started, than to deliberately reconcile with his defeat. At best, he will wait for time, weigh everything, and give his answer if he is sure that his word will have more weight in the conversation. In general, men do not like smart women (when they tend to show off and show a master class in a mental duel).

2. Emotions are not for men

Almost every representative of the strong half is taught from childhood that men do not cry. So this attitude remains for life. And in a conversation, men are not ready to show sensuality. It is easier for them to focus on finding solutions than to express their feelings and emotions. Therefore, do not appeal to their pity, they are not inclined to turn the soul inside out. Knowing this feature of the stronger sex, you will finally stop believing that your other half is a “stale cracker”.

3. Start a specific conversation

It’s better to have a conversation in the style of “what I see is what I sing” with a friend, she is a kindred spirit, she will be glad to chat about everything and nothing at once. For the male psyche, such communication is unbearable. If a woman, speaking everything, begins to understand what's what, then for a man this option is not at all acceptable. Therefore, do not be surprised that your partner does not take part in the conversation: he simply cannot keep track of what is being discussed. If you want to talk to a man - define a specific topic and do not deviate from it.

4. Sing praises in his honor

Since men are very ambitious, they always like flattering reviews towards their own person. Therefore, when communicating, do not skimp on praise about how insightful he is, how accurately he knows how to notice all the subtleties and so on in this sense. You won’t believe it, but conquering a man , just by listening to him and admiring him, is much easier than trying to make a lasting impression on him with your external data. At the very least, he will like the prospect of an undeniable orator more than an unlucky conqueror of a beauty who looks to wag her tail the other way.

5. Don't argue with men

It makes no sense to argue with a man, unless, of course, you are a work colleague who is trying to prove how professionally untenable her partner in a common cause is. In other cases, if you want to maintain a relationship or improve, an argument will only lead to disagreements, because the nature of a man does not allow him to be weak even in a verbal duel. Under no circumstances would he want to be defeated by a woman. Even if he is wrong, he will still insist on his own. Therefore, if you want him to accept your point of view, it is better to present everything as if your thought is his idea. Remember, it is important for a man to show his independence, to receive recognition, after which he is ready to perform feats for you.