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“Forbidden fruit is sweet” - this phrase applies to many concepts, including relationships with a married man. This is how human psychology works: what others like, I also want, and if it’s not available to me, I want it doubly. Therefore, it so often happens that it seems to an unmarried girl that the ideal option is the one that is busy (otherwise, why is he busy, because he is good enough - it’s logical, only for some reason he is busy with another woman who is “not worthy of him” - but this is already not logical).
Relationship with a married man
Accordingly, a girl, having a relationship with a married man, definitely thinks that she is the best match for him, because only she can love him the way her wife does not love, and give him as much as he does not receive in his current family.
However, this is a misconception, because the facts show that when a breadwinner taken away from the family creates a new family with his former mistress, the union is not better, but even worse than the previous one, or at least - sewn on soap. Cause?
Causes
Everything is very banal. When a girl meets a man, she tries to look at 100%, in any case, personal time allows her to make a marathon. And the fact that they are not together 24 hours a day also matters. The novelty is so attractive. But since the mistress changes the status of a loner to a married (behind the object of desire) lady, everything changes. A joint life appears, there is not always time for yourself, as before. And what was once hidden from the eyes of a loved one becomes obvious. For example, a dressing gown, slippers, curlers (in an exaggerated form). He had not seen this before, but met with a pomaded fifa. Now there is an opportunity to see her not made up, undressed, not at the parade. Wait a second, is it worth changing everything? It used to be better, the wife was waiting at home with dinner, everything was stable, but now the young lady will find a new object of hobbies for herself (variety is needed).
For such reasons, married men are in no hurry to change their family, where everything has already taken shape and acquired specific features, into the unknown. After all, who knows how life will turn out there. Suddenly he gets sick, will his young wife need him? Rather, she needs a romantic relationship, as they say, candy wrappers, flowers. And she doesn’t even think about the bitter berry: who wants to take care of the sick, although, unfortunately, this happens in life.
Pay
Therefore, before wasting your time on a married person, you need to be aware that these relationships, in most cases, do not lead to anything. Well, if it's not a pity to have fun for your own pleasure, you can continue. Just keep in mind that you will have to pay for everything once and for all. So you can stay alone (just lose time), or get in trouble on your own head (wives, you know, are also different, they can use the services of sorcerers, etc.) in general, not long to earn selective negative on your head.
Adviсe
And besides, you yourself can someday be in the place of such a wife. Even if there is confidence that with your beauty, anyone will be afraid to lose all this splendor and become an exemplary family man, you can easily be deceived. The fact is that they walk both from beautiful and from ugly, everything in this life becomes boring. Now, if you live with an ugly person, over time, his beauty will not be noticed. And about eating, this is already a cause for concern for wives, from whom husbands walk. Marriage is a big job for a woman in the first place. So that your man does not look at strangers, you need to keep the brand, come up with new images, change every 40 days, then he won’t even think about looking at others. Its quite good. But that's a completely different story.