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Orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure, the discharge of accumulated sexual energy. After an orgasm, there is a decline in arousal, although some women have multiple orgasms, and the intervals between them are not very long, and each next orgasm can be equal in severity to the previous one. Such multi-stage arousal is typical for very passionate and sensual women.
As for men, they need more time to recover from ejaculation. And for a new act, one of them may need a whole night, although hot oriental guys can satisfy their partner many times.
Types of orgasm
There are two main types of orgasm in women: clitoral and vaginal. Orgasm can occur both during masturbation and petting (stimulation of erogenous zones by a partner, but without sexual contact), or during pampering with sex toys, and of course, during sexual intercourse. All kinds of caresses lead to orgasm. The degree of severity and brightness is very individual.
A woman gradually accumulates sexual sensations, which at one point reach their climax and there is a surge of sexual energy. It is impossible to describe an orgasm in words, because this phenomenon belongs to the sphere of sensations, therefore, in order to understand the nature of an orgasm, one must experience it.
clitoral orgasm
There is an opinion that the clitoral orgasm (which came as a result of caressing the clitoris) is inferior. Some women are even afraid to admit that they have never had a vaginal orgasm. But everything is very individual. Of course, it is easier to cause a clitoral orgasm, because the clitoris is a very sensitive area and its stimulation somehow leads to the peak of pleasure.
vaginal orgasm
Well, the vaginal orgasm is more complex in nature. Vaginal receptors do not respond so strongly to stimulation and friction during intercourse, if there were many nerve endings in the vagina, then the process of childbirth would be unbearable (too painful) for a woman. Therefore, not every woman is able to experience a vaginal orgasm. To achieve it, you need a strong concentration on sensations, while there should be no “inhibiting” factors in the psychological plan.
The fact is that during sex you need to be able to completely surrender to pleasant sensations, which is not possible for everyone. There are many factors for this, for example, for some reason, complexes may work due to unsuccessful previous experience, and so on. Therefore, the maximum setting for enjoyment brings more vivid sensations and orgasms. It is important to completely surrender to voluptuousness, while "turning off" the brains.
How to help yourself reach orgasm
There is no single recipe, because a lot depends on your sexual preferences and the passion of your partner. Some women have to caress the clitoris on their own, especially during intercourse in the knee-elbow position. Not every partner will be able to reach the partner's pubis in this position. Although there are women who are completely given to a partner and do not accept independent caresses during intercourse. Someone lacks contact with the classic pose: a man on top. In this position, the clitoris is stimulated by his pubis, but again, not every lady will have enough such contact to reach the climax.
Girls are encouraged to masturbate in order to develop sensuality, learn to quickly reach the peak of sexual awe. Of course, when intimacy with a man, you can also simulate an orgasm, since women do not have special criteria for determining it, while for men, ejaculation is the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. A man whose partner does not receive satisfaction feels the infringement of male pride, and for this reason women tend to portray satisfaction so that the partner is confident in his male viability. But it is unlikely that this state of affairs will suit the partner herself. Still, sex should bring pleasure and sexual relaxation to both.
Simultaneous or disjointed orgasm
Some believe that the ideal option is when partners reach the stage of orgasm at the same time. We will not argue that this option is the best, because when reaching orgasm at different times, both partners experience the whole gamut of sensations even more vividly. It takes some practice to figure out which pose is more voluptuous for a particular couple.
As a rule, the partner seeks to ensure that the woman reaches orgasm first. Then she is maximally concentrated on her feelings, and the man at this time stretches the pleasure. As soon as the partner experiences frantic pulsations characteristic of orgasm, the partner completes the act with confidence, receiving complete satisfaction.
